Spank her. In the bedroom, with consent secured and a safe word selected, spanking is naughty and kinky; not abusive—and can be an amazing aid to push your partner over the edge into orgasm. Many women are aroused by spanking in sex; the flashes of sharp pain turn them on. Others find the occasional slap on the rump naughty and kinky. Spanking in sex sounds very alluring, does not it? The pudendal nerve is the primary nerve network in the pelvic region.
Should I love her for it, or carry on hating her? I am not sure. The interview happened to fall on the same day as I was sitting my history exam, and that was typical. Her interview was at 2. She turned with a little skip and a feeling of doom touched me as she vanished from view. With her delicate features and deep green eyes, Binky had only recently become aware of the affect she had — on men, on the nuns, on the world — and was making up for lost time.
But if your desire to leave a handprint and grab her backside keeps growing, you may be interested in a whole new level: erotic spanking. What is that? It's always a good idea if you're being spanked to enjoy it, but the person spanking can get highly aroused too. Sometimes the person being spanked can lead to orgasm and even squirting. Before you even get started with a little booty-play, take a moment to realize just how far back spanking actually goes.
I have known women that could go through almost endless cycles of spanking and orgasm. An orgasm before a spanking does not have the same degree of reduced libido on a woman as it does for a man. The desire for more spanking and orgasms just does abate as quickly for a woman as it does for a man. I think most men and women will agree that after two successive orgasms most men are spent and ready for a nap. I know that a spanking is the last thing I want after an orgasm.